Safety Center

Your safety is our top priority. Here's everything you need to know about staying safe on Ten Minute Date.

๐Ÿšจ Emergency?

If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services immediately.

For urgent safety concerns on our platform, email [email protected].

Video Call Safety

Before Your Call

  • Choose a private location โ€” Make sure you're in a quiet, private space where you won't be interrupted
  • Check your background โ€” Ensure nothing personally identifying is visible behind you
  • Trust your instincts โ€” If something feels off, you can cancel or end the call anytime
  • Keep personal info private โ€” Don't share your address, workplace, or other identifying details

During Your Call

  • You control the conversation โ€” End the call anytime by clicking the hang-up button
  • No recording allowed โ€” Recording video calls without consent violates our Terms and may be illegal
  • Stay on the app โ€” Don't move to other platforms (WhatsApp, Instagram) until you've built trust
  • Report concerning behavior โ€” Use the report button if someone makes you uncomfortable

Red Flags to Watch For

Asking for money Refusing to video chat Love bombing (intense affection early) Inconsistent stories Pressuring you to meet offline quickly Asking for personal info (SSN, bank details) Sending unsolicited explicit content Aggressive or threatening language

Meeting Offline

If you decide to meet someone in person after video chatting:

โœ… Do:

  • Meet in a public place (cafรฉ, restaurant, park)
  • Tell a friend where you're going and when you'll be back
  • Share your location with a trusted contact
  • Arrange your own transportation
  • Stay sober and alert
  • Keep your phone charged and accessible
  • Have an exit strategy (friend who can call with an "emergency")

โŒ Don't:

  • Go to someone's home or invite them to yours on the first meeting
  • Let them pick you up or take you home
  • Share your home address
  • Leave drinks unattended
  • Feel pressured to stay if you're uncomfortable

Our Safety Features

๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ Block & Report

Instantly block anyone and report inappropriate behavior. Reported users are reviewed within 4 hours.

๐Ÿ“ธ Photo Moderation

AI scans all photos for inappropriate content. NSFW images are automatically rejected.

๐Ÿ”’ Peer-to-Peer Video

Video calls are encrypted and flow directly between devices. We can't access your conversations.

โฑ๏ธ Call Timer

The 10-minute limit gives you a natural exit point. You can leave anytime, no explanation needed.

๐Ÿ‘ค Profile Verification

6-step onboarding ensures users are serious about dating, not catfishing.

๐Ÿ“ต No Phone Numbers Required

Communicate through the app until you're comfortable sharing personal contact info.

How to Report

If someone violates our community guidelines or makes you feel unsafe:

In-App Reporting

  1. Go to the user's profile
  2. Tap the three dots menu (โ‹ฎ)
  3. Select "Report"
  4. Choose a reason and provide details
  5. Submit the report

The user will be automatically blocked, and our moderation team will review within 4 hours.

Email Reporting

For serious safety concerns, email us directly at [email protected] with:

  • The user's profile name
  • Description of the incident
  • Screenshots (if available and safe to share)
  • Date and time of the incident

Common Scams to Avoid

๐Ÿ’ฐ The Money Scam

Someone you've just met asks for money, gift cards, or financial help. Never send money to someone you haven't met in person.

๐Ÿ“ฑ The "Move to WhatsApp" Scam

Someone quickly asks to move the conversation to another app. This is often a tactic to get your phone number or move you off our safety monitoring. Stay on Ten Minute Date until you trust them.

๐Ÿ’” The Catfish

Someone refuses to video chat, has inconsistent photos, or their story doesn't add up. Trust your instinctsโ€”if something feels off, it probably is.

๐Ÿ”— The Link Scam

Someone sends you a link to click. Never click links from people you don't know. They could be phishing attempts or malware.

Account Security

  • Use a strong password โ€” Combine letters, numbers, and symbols
  • Don't share your login โ€” Keep your account credentials private
  • Log out on shared devices โ€” Always log out when using public computers
  • Report suspicious activity โ€” If you notice unusual activity on your account, change your password and contact us

Remember

You have the power to end any interaction at any time. Trust your instincts. Your safety comes first.

If you ever feel unsafe, block the user, report them, and reach out to our safety team at [email protected].